tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post1128377137181034062..comments2024-03-05T04:34:27.855-05:00Comments on Celia M. ~ Living My High Heeled Life: The Role People Play in Our Lives ... Part Onehighheeledlifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07205935979513877589noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-58107762686040611552011-04-18T12:03:52.757-04:002011-04-18T12:03:52.757-04:00Wow! What a fabulous post. I have experienced ALL ...Wow! What a fabulous post. I have experienced ALL your examples. I think it's only with the wisdom of age that we obtain the tools to know when to just walk away.Vannessa@Luxuriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13004543876391503184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-14762049955435918892011-04-17T23:37:06.080-04:002011-04-17T23:37:06.080-04:00wow -- so very very true. this is such a great po...wow -- so very very true. this is such a great post (i feel like i say this all the time, but it is always so true!)<br /><br />i find that i somehow attract these toxic people into my life - and as soon as i get rid of one, i have another one popping up. and they're a combination of the up one and the debbie downer - it's just a mess. i have never had success in turning them into a loving friend, unfortunately.how i met your father bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08801991769160050444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-18415642125159304952011-04-17T22:20:56.683-04:002011-04-17T22:20:56.683-04:00I can count my friends on my one hand, and then no...I can count my friends on my one hand, and then not even all my fingers on that hand. I have loads of acquaintances, but cannot call them friends. But those who I can call my friends, are good friends, and people I can rely on. <br /><br />Well written post, you certainly have talent to write a novel, and have a best seller. <br /><br />Thanks for sharing, it surely made me take score of my life and appreciate my friends a little more.<br /><br />Hope your week is filled with no pain and loads of joy.<br /><br />Colin.Grumpy old manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00362057586314180517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-4295098824851813462011-04-17T16:53:32.671-04:002011-04-17T16:53:32.671-04:00I am a new GFC follower from the Let's Get Soc...I am a new GFC follower from the Let's Get Social hop ~~<br />Karen<br />~Mommy's Moments~<br />http://www.avonbykaren.blogspot.comKaren Fhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13375391110733253557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-84288302769114824772011-04-17T15:11:23.668-04:002011-04-17T15:11:23.668-04:00I believe people come and go into our lives for so...I believe people come and go into our lives for some reason and to teach us something. However we must know to choose for the best.<br /><br />Hope you're living nice and lovely times with real friends.<br /><br />Tons of love, angel<br /><br />xoxo<br /><br />http://searchingtheinnerme.blogspot.com/Seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04128993876847534647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-49188498376762255062011-04-17T14:24:37.287-04:002011-04-17T14:24:37.287-04:00Isn't it interesting the people we have in our...Isn't it interesting the people we have in our life? Some touch the parameters while others touch our hearts.Teena in Torontohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14875608173791872449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-85511777681170971412011-04-17T11:49:31.156-04:002011-04-17T11:49:31.156-04:00I try to surround myself with people that build me...I try to surround myself with people that build me up, not bring me down. But it is tough at times, especially, because sometimes the toxic people are people you really care about! I think it's best to be aware of what type of person someone is and then you can adjust your expectations (and actions) accordingly!Alexandra Bee Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14674936934164762406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-41547487011624787212011-04-17T09:49:10.993-04:002011-04-17T09:49:10.993-04:00I was surprised you failed to mention the Jeckyll&...I was surprised you failed to mention the Jeckyll&Hyde friend type. Where they are either super-supportive awesome for everything OR one of the toxic types you listed with no real warning on who you'll see.<br /><br />A friend of mine had an ex-wife like that who I was at one time friends with. And she also was an isolationist in that she tried to be the only friend you could have because she saw the evil auras of all my other friends.FatAngryBloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11111350848902455866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-16716406569935551492011-04-17T04:21:59.372-04:002011-04-17T04:21:59.372-04:00i can relate on your post, i too have only well on...i can relate on your post, i too have only well one person that i could only call best friend, as for others that they say they're my friends, i could put them in each categories that you mentioned, this is probably why i like to distance myself from them and the result? it's not good either coz now i become a private person who only keep to myself, they say a friend in need is a friend indeed, wishing you a blessed day! <br /><br />I'm following you from let's get social weekend hop! <br /><br />Susan @http://tea-diary.blogspot.com♥ Miss Teahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02615298030351481246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-44672140308973629872011-04-17T03:18:14.248-04:002011-04-17T03:18:14.248-04:00New follower from social Sunday hop. This is such...New follower from social Sunday hop. This is such a truthful and great post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08782910977253852857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-34087226794740335622011-04-17T00:28:54.531-04:002011-04-17T00:28:54.531-04:00Dearest Celia,
Oh, how well phrased! You could wr...Dearest Celia,<br /><br />Oh, how well phrased! You could write a book about this subject. Yes, we all have had this 'negative' energy drain from friends with a 'dead end'... So many people indeed vie for attention and want to be more pitiful than others. WHY? Life indeed is too short and too precious for having to lend an ear to those that almost drown us emotionally...<br />A big hug to you and you're very strong inside!<br /><br />MarietteMariettehttp://mariettesbacktobasics.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-42632671972687857142011-04-16T22:56:07.063-04:002011-04-16T22:56:07.063-04:00new follower from the sunday blog hop... I love th...new follower from the sunday blog hop... I love this entry!! So true :)<br /><br />have a great night - Alyssa<br />http://armygirlfriendconfessions.blogspot.comAlyssahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18346744494520694729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-73979277763981265352011-04-16T22:10:20.127-04:002011-04-16T22:10:20.127-04:00So well-written. I relate to every one of these s...So well-written. I relate to every one of these statements -- so very true! Hope you are doing well these days. Hugs, JConfessions of a Mother, Lawyer & Crazy Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18328760054648644568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-8910540595923481982011-04-16T19:01:19.117-04:002011-04-16T19:01:19.117-04:00These days I mostly try and avoid toxic people...I...These days I mostly try and avoid toxic people...I used to try and "help" them but it just used to end up making *me worse*<br /><br />I found your blog on Facing 50 with Humor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-61835261712971333942011-04-16T18:56:15.962-04:002011-04-16T18:56:15.962-04:00Yes girl , i love how you broke it down! Love this...Yes girl , i love how you broke it down! Love this!Marcia B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15965200821614649941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-36466701437866982552011-04-16T18:11:19.517-04:002011-04-16T18:11:19.517-04:00i don't keep toxic people in my life...Life is...i don't keep toxic people in my life...Life is too short and i am too busy ! LOL<br />Great post and you rock, you know that :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10337300945942086993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-3750397375064616422011-04-16T18:10:18.242-04:002011-04-16T18:10:18.242-04:00I love your blog!! I'm follwoing you now and h...I love your blog!! I'm follwoing you now and hope you'll return the favour!!<br /><br />Nancy<br /><br />http://thatsoundslikecrazy.blogspot.com/NANCYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06609503398782530181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-16905256947310482262011-04-16T16:15:36.977-04:002011-04-16T16:15:36.977-04:00Oh yes we need loving supporting inspiring friends...Oh yes we need loving supporting inspiring friends around us! Everyone has a bad day at times, however those with these continual traits just bring us down!<br /><br />Come and enter my fashionable giveaway from The French Basketeer!<br /><br />xoxo<br />Karena<br />Art by KarenaKarenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206642885608991170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8806321148001582068.post-72431543637420127732011-04-16T15:50:03.878-04:002011-04-16T15:50:03.878-04:00I love the blog, I am now following from the weeke...I love the blog, I am now following from the weekend hop <br /><br />would love a follow back <br />http://thelifeofawifenmommy.blogspot.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com